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This is http://www.essayz.com/b0602021.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %TRAGIC LIMITATIONS THOUGHTLESS ALIENATIVE TABOOS 060202 %WISE PRUDENT REAL RISK CONFLICT INTEREST DOMINATE 060202 %INTIMATE VULNERABLE DIFFERENT SEXUAL LIFE STYLES 060202 %ESSENTIAL FOUNDATIONS PERSONAL COMMUNAL INTEGRITY 060202 %DIFFERENT CONFORMITY CREATIVITY IMAGINATION DREAMS 060202 %AUTHENTIC TRUE LOVERS PEACEMAKER WORLD UPSIDE DOWN 060202 The extent to which we are able to transcend the Tragic-Limitations of Thoughtless-and-Alienative Taboos; while dealing Wisely/Prudently with the Real-Risks that they Ostensibly-Address --- depends greatly upon how well we deal with the Conflicting-Interests of Past-Present- and-Future: (1) Domineering-People, (2) Vulnerable-People, and (3) Interested/Concerned-Bystanders who are NOT Intimately-Involved in our Own-Most-Risky and Most-Intimate-Relations. All Intimate-Relationships entail Real-Risks. Healthy-Intimate-Relationships Which are Honored and Dysfunctional-Intimate-Relationships Which are NOT-Healthy entail Real-Risks, but Different-Risks. All kinds of Intimate-Relationships entail Real-Risks whether they be: Family-Relationships, Relationships-with-Neighbors, Economic-Relationships, Commercial-Relations, Spiritual-Relationships, Sexual-Relationships, Platonic-Relationships, Scholarly-Relationships, AND/OR Objective-Relationships, etc. in some combinations. The Kinds-of-Risks entailed in Intimate-Relationships are varied: 1. Objective, Reflexive, and Subjective. 2. Economic, Healthy, Psychological, Spiritual. 3. Integrative, Disintegrative. 4. Misunderstandings, Misinterpretations. 5. Contextual, Communal, Personal. The extent to which we are able to transcend the Tragic-Limitations of Thoughtless-and-Alienative Taboos; while dealing Wisely/Prudently with the Real-Risks that they Ostensibly-Address --- depends greatly upon how well we deal with the Conflicting-Interests of Past-Present- and-Future: (1) Domineering-People, (2) Vulnerable-People, and (3) Interested/Concerned-People. The level of risk increases when it is Taboo-to-Talk Openly-And-Honestly about the kind and levels of risk. We cannot deal Wisely/Prudently with the Real-Risks which are Present-in-our-Intimate-Relationships --- if we are Unable-To and/or Fail-To Openly-And-Honestly: 1. Talk about them. 2. Share them with each other in Gracious-Ways. 3. Manage them Together-in-the-Way-of-Shalom. 4. Balance-Each-Other's-Best-Interests-Mutually. 5. Learn from Our-Own and Each-Other's-Mistakes. 6. Deal with our Personal-and-Communal-Tragedies. 7. Deal with Our-Vulnerabilities-and-Dominations. Our-Dilemmas in regards to our Thoughtless-and- Alienative-Taboos seem to lead us into tragedies most often within the contexts of Unusual-Intimate: 1. Political-Relationships, 2. Religious-Relationships and 3. Sexual-Relationships --- Because it is within such Intimate-Relationships that the Tensions-Contentions-and-Conflicts between Domineering-People and Vulnerable-People are Greatest and Most-Tragic. To transcend such Tensions-Contentions-and-Conflicts we must learn how to deal Openly-and-Honestly with ways to: 1. Recognize, 2. Acknowledge, 3. Clarify, 4. Describe and 5. Mitigate them --- without affirming Traditional-Misleading-Myths about the Redemptive-Powers of Unilateral: 1. Violence, 2. Coercion, 3. Demands, 4. Commands, 5. Rescues, 6. Intimacies, 7. Salvation. True-Lovers Help-Each/Every-Other Transcend The-Way- of-Domination by Offering True-Communal-Sanctuaries within which ALL can be Safe-and-Secure in Letting-Go-of-The- Tools-of-Domination. Domineering-People are Never-Truly-Safe-and-Secure, because they Make-their-Ultimate-Concern be the Achievement-of-Invulnerability by ever Clinging-to-The- Tools-of-Domination. True-Lovers accept Mutual-Balanced-Vulnerability as an Essential-Aspect of Healthy-Security-and-Intimacy. Domineering-People Fear-all-forms-of-Vulnerability as Incompatible-With True-Security-Within-Invulnerability. True-Lovers will prevail graciously by Speaking- Truth-to-Fallen-Powers-That-Be - In-Denial about the Many- Complementary-Truths that by Being-Well-Integrated transcend each Ostensibly-ABSOLUTE but ISOLATED-TRUTH. Be-Intimately-Together in The-Ways-of-Shalom. (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================