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This is http://www.essayz.com/b0512161.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %CHOOSING WAY FRAMES QUESTIONS PARADIGMS WAR SHALOM 051216 %DOMINATE COOPERATION CONFLICT COLLABORATION PEACE 051216 %COSTLY DESTRUCTIVE MILITARY INDUSTRIAL COMPLEXITY 051216 %INTEGRATIONS INTEGRITIES DESTRUCTIVE HOSTILITY SIN 051216 %HOSPITALS HOSPITALITY HEALING GOOD RELATIONSHIPS 051216 %BATTLES DICHOTOMIES ARMIES OPPOSING SIDES ALIENATE 051216 Domineering-People's thoughts, attitudes, feelings, fears, and childhood-experiences --- are most likely All- Inter-Related; and contribute to how-they-became the Mean- Kinds of Domineering-People that they Thoughtlessly- Become. We may not be able to Understand-and-Facilitate the Healing-of-Domineering-People (including our selves) so long as we do Not-Understand How-And-Why it is that: "Domineering-People's thoughts, attitudes, feelings, fears, and childhood-experiences are all-inter-related; and contribute to how-they-have-became the Mean-Kinds of Domineering-People that they Thoughtlessly-Become. 1. Children who grow up in Abject-Poverty --- are likely to grow up Feeling-and-Believing-and-Thinking that the Key-to-Fulfilling-Their-Needs is always To-Get-More of what it is that they lacked during their childhood. 2. Children who grew up in a community where there was a Great-Disparity between what the Powerful-And- Respected people had; and what their Poor-Families had --- are likely to grow up Feeling-and-Believing-and-Thinking that the Key-to-Fulfilling-Their-Needs --- is always To- Get-and-Have-More-than-What-their-Neighbors-Have. 3. Children who grew up in Communities where there was Little-Wealth-and-Power-Sharing, Little-Conservation, Little-Dialogue and Little-Hospitality and Much- Consumption --- are likely to grow up Feeling-and- Believing-and-Thinking that the Right-Way-to-Have-Enough - -- is to unilaterally: Make-Get- or-Steal whatever-it-is- that-YOU-Need. 4. Children who grew up in Communities-Dominated-by- Needs-and-Fears-of-NOT-Having-Enough --- are likely to grow up Feeling-and-Believing-and-Thinking that their Unilateral-Management-of-People's-Fears --- is the Right- Way-to-Have-Enough in the Midst-of-Scarcity. 5. Children who grew up in Families-and- Neighborhoods that were Dominated-by-Anxieties due to Debilitating: Needs, Threats, Alienation, and Fears --- are likely to grow up Feeling-and-Believing-and-Thinking that the Key-to-their-Adult-Fulfillment --- will be to Dominate-Others by Unilaterally-Managing-Others'-Needs- Anxieties-Alienations-and-Fears. 6. Little-Children who grew up in Families-and- Neighborhoods that lacked the Safety-Nets of Hospitality- and-Healing within True-Sanctuaries-Build-For-All-to-Heal- In --- are likely as Belittling-Adults to BUILD-FORTS-AND- MANSIONS-AND-SUVs TO-HIDE-IN --- isolated from their neighbors in Village-Earth. 7. Little-Children who experienced Alienation-and- Isolation-From Health, Wealth, Power, and Reverence --- are likely as Belittling-Adults to Make-Sure that as Belittling-Adults they live on the Other-Side-of-The- Inevitable-Dividing-Lines of Adult-Living. 8. Fearful-Greedy-Withholding-of-Gifts-to-Neighbors in One-Generation-of-Adults leads to Fearful-Generosity- toward-Military-Industrial-Complexes in the Following- Generations. 9. Fears-of-Cooperative-Integrative-Activities in One-Generation-of-Adults leads to Fearful-Cooperation in efforts to Dominate-Enemies in Following-Generations. 10. Fears-of-Vulnerability-in-Intimacies in One- Generation-of-Adults leads to Fearful-Defensive/Offensive Unilateral-Actions in Following-Generations that seek to Unilaterally-Achieve-Invulnerability through the costly Alienative-services of Military-Industrial-Complexes. 11. Fearful-Failures to be Generously-Integrative in One-Generation are often followed by Generous-Destructive Cooperative-Behaviors in the Disintegrative-Rituals-of-War in following generations. Our choices are often between: Generous-Integrative Ways- of-Living and Generous-Disintegrative Ways-of-Living; between Generosity-Toward-Integrations in Gracious Reconciliation and Generosity-Toward-Disintegration in Evil-Alienation. between Cooperating Together in Shalom fueled/guided by LOVE and Cooperating Together in Wars fueled/guided by Fear/Greed. between The Risks entailed in Intimacies-in-True-Sanctuaries and The Risks entailed in Alienations-between-Fortresses. between Risky LOVE, Generosity, Hospitality and Civility and Risky HATE, Greed, Hostility, and Contentiousness. Shalom is the True-Way. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================