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This is http://www.essayz.com/b0507062.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %BASIC HUMANE NEEDS BEING HELD COMFORTED STROKED 050706 %CHERISHED SECURE WANTED SAFE SIGNIFICANT SECURED 050706 %WANTED SAFELY VULNERABLE SIGNIFICANT REMEMBERED 050706 %NOT MET LACK MISS CLING HOLD OWN REPLACE SUBSTITUT 050706 %INCOMPLETE PARTIAL FRAGMENT POLARIZE ALIENATE GODS 050706 %INTIMATES FRIENDS FAMILY EVIL SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS 050706 There is a Basic-Humane-Need to Be-Held, Be- Comforted, Be-Stroked, Be-Cherished, Feel-Secure, Feel- Wanted, Feel-Safe, Feel-Significant, Be-Significant, Be- Remembered, Be-Feeling-Creatures. If this Basic-Humane-Need Is-Not-Met we may Cling-To, Hold-On-To, Own, Stroke, Cherish, Secure, Want-Desperately and Seek-Invulnerability in Desperate-Efforts-To-REPLACE What-We-LACK with SOME-THING --- when we FEEL: Ignored, Unwanted, Insecure, Un-Held, Un-Comfortable, Un-Cherished, Etc. When we feel-out-of-CONTROL over being NOT: Wanted, Attended-to, Secure, Held, Cherished, Comforted --- we may in DESPERATION: Want, Attend-to, Secure, Hold, Comfort, or Cherish SOMETHING, ANYTHING, Which-we-can-CONTROL, can- OWN, can-WANT, can-ATTEND-to, can-SECURE, can-HOLD, can- CHERISH, can-COMFORT In-Compensation-For What-we-Lack in Despair-and-Depression. Wanting-To-Be-In-CONTROL through Holding-On, Clinging-To, Wanting-More, Attending-To, Securing, Cherishing, and Acting-Unilaterally --- is often our Futile-Ideal-Form-of-Compensation for what we have Not-Had. Inhumane-Indifference is often the Opposite-of-Humane LOVE --- In-Absence. InHumane-Clinging-on-To is often a Tragic-Substitute Abused In-Place-Of Absent-LOVE. Trying-To-Get-More of Our-Tragic-Substitute in the Absence-of-Love is a More-Tragic-Substitute, In-Quality as well as In-Quantity --- and IT Escalates-the-Alienation from Healthy-Humane-Relationships through: Coercion, Violence, Abuse, Unilateral-Actions, Despair, Depression and Mis-Understanding of Each-Other in Playing-Games of Mutual-Self-Deception Under-Guidance-Of The-Domination- System which Motivates-US. We need-to-stop cherishing-substitutes, and learn- how-to-cherish each-and-every-other as humane-beings within humane-relationships under-the-humane-guidance-of and the-humane-motivations-of the LOVE which we miss. Shalom is The-Way, not The-End. There is no effective-means to Shalom. It is mean to try-to-find such a means. All such Mean-Means are Tragically-Futile. ----------------------------------------------------- LOVE! Shalom! ************ Discover Shalom! Un-Cover Shalom! Stop Covering-Up! Be-Together in LOVE! Let-Go of means to Love! Be-Yourself Within Shalom! Means to LOVE/SHALOM do not work! We cannot-control means-to LOVE/SHALOM! Shalom! LOVE! (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================