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This is Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %TRUE LOVERS INTIMACY SEXUALITY VULNERABILITY GAIN 050614 %INVOLVED MUTUALLY SELF OTHERS TRULY INTEGRATIVE 050614 %INVULNERABLE VULNERABLE SECURE INSECURE MUTUALITY 050614 %DEFENSIVE NONVIOLENT RESISTANCE SUBMISSIVE HONEST 050614 %OPEN AUTHENTIC PERSONAL COMMUNAL INTEGRITY SECRET 050614 %PEACEMAKER CONFLICT RESOLUTION COOPERATION DESIRE 050614 True-Lovers are able to be involved with each other in Truly-Integrative-Intimacy while Domineering-People are un-able to be involved with each other in Truly-Integrative-Intimacies --- because: 1. True-Lovers are free to encourage each other to be open-and-honest about their: feelings, visions, dreams, fantasies, desires, and Points-of-Vulnerability --- past and present; and desire to do so in the Mutual-Ways of shalom; demonstrating its diverse integrities To-and-For Each-Other with Due-Reverence-For Self-and-Other --- WHILE: 2. Domineering-People in Calculative-Ways try to Take-Advantage of each other's Points-of-Vulnerability --- past and present; desiring to do so in Unilateral-Ways of coercion, demonstrating their own Arrogant-Superiority with No-Reverence-For Self-or-Other. - - - - - - 3. True-Lovers are focused upon Facilitating-and- Promoting both Personal-and-Communal Integrations-and- Integrities in Mutually-Compatible Ways-of-Shalom --- WHILE: 4. Domineering-People are focused on Concentrating- their-Gain of Wealth-and-Power in Unilateral-and-Coercive ways so as to achieve Invulnerability-as-Security for only Self-Alone. - - - - - - 5. True-Lovers can Let-Go of Self-Defensive-Ways in Love's-Ways of Giving-and-Receiving Without-Calculations; WHILE: 6. Domineering-People focus upon Self-Calculations in Isolated-Ways of Getting-and-Concentrating Wealth-and- Powers which are Fallen-and-Alienative; Corrupting-and- Divisive. - - - - - - 7. True-Lovers seek to be Known-and-Knowing of Each-Other's Desires-and-Pleasures Facilitating-Coherence; WHILE: 8. Domineering people seek to be Secret-in-Knowing Each-Other's Fears-and-Vulnerabilities As-Tools-to-Be Unilaterally-Abused for Isolated-Gain. - - - - - - 9. True-Lovers accept Love's-Commandments Within- Their-Hearts as True-Guides Into-Coherence With-Unity; WHILE: 10. Domineering-People inscribe Abusive-Scripts in Abuseable-Laws as Weapons-of-Gain which are Abused- Unilaterally in Alienative-Ways-of-Pain. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================