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This is http://www.essayz.com/b0310081.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %ESSENTIAL KEY IMPROVEMENT DYSFUNCTIONAL RELATION 031008 %LIE TRUTH BEHAVIORS TRUE LOVERS MANAGE OPEN HONEST 031008 %DEMONSTRATE ROLE MODEL INCARNATIONS KNOWLEDGE EVIL 031008 %HEALTHY PERSONAL COMMUNAL INTEGRITY HONOR RESPECT 031008 %SYMPATHY SUPPORT REVERENCE CONTENTIOUS COERCE SIN 031008 %CONFLICT RESOLUTION PEACEMAKER RECONCILE HEAL GOOD 031008 An essential key to the improvement of dysfunctional human relationships lies in the behaviors of True Lovers who manage to openly and honestly DEMONSTRATE what they TRULY KNOW about healthy personal and communal integrities and integrations --- and thereby gain honor, respect, sympathy and support. As regards to the improvement of dysfunctional human relationships: TRUE DEMONSTRATIONS are convincing; whereas CONTENTIOUS ARGUMENTATION is NOT convincing. In the absence of gracious existential demonstrations of Love --- all pretentious theories are as dry grass in the presence of a fire storm. Contentiousness about dysfunctional THEORIES regarding the natures of good-people and evil-people --- does not contribute positively to the improvement of actual dysfunctional human relationships. Such contentiousness strongly suggests that the supporters of the THEORIES know very little of practical value regarding any actual demonstrations of the value which might be found in their HOPE that their THEORIES acually describe complementry TRUTHS about real occasions of people becoming better integrated in spite of their dysfunctional and/or inhumane personal relationships. Their THEORIES are based upon misleading conceptions of the nature/essence of evil --- whereby they attribute evil to isolated individuals, rather than to DISINTEGRATIVE-RELATIONSHIPS. Evil is absent in the absence of relationships. Love is absent in the absence of relationships. Hope is absent in the absence of relationships. Faith is absent in the absence of relationships. Faith, Hope and Love abide only in the presence of relationships. People who expect and anticipate that they will find or create hope and fulfillment through: domination, controls, coercion, arrogance, self-righteousness, perfection, conformity, formalities, and the copying of ideal-forms --- regularly demonstrate the tragic conseaquences of such futile expectations, anticipations and hopes. They believe that if only they will try harder and make greater sacrifices of personal and communal integrities --- their expectations, anticipations and hopes will eventually be fulfilled. They demonstrate the futility of what they stand for. They do not stand for personal and communal integration; and so they disintegrate in tragic ways. They tolerate the sacrifice of many personal and communal integrities in futile efforts to find or create hope and fulfillment through: domination, controls, coercion, arrogance, self-righteousness, perfection, conformity, formalities, and the conforming to their own MUTUALLY-EXCLUSIVE Ideal-Forms. Through their demonstrations of Love and Truth many True-Lovers challenge in intolerable ways (to domineering people) the disinegrative ways of people who expect and anticipate that they will find or create hope and fulfillment through: domination, controls, coercion, arrogance, self-righteousness, perfection, conformity, formalities, and the copying of ideal-forms. All True-Lovers are thus intolerable (to domineering people) and so are excommunicated by the "superior-ones" who believe that they fully know the Absolute Truth. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================