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This is http://www.essayz.com/b0310061.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %DOMINEERING PEOPLE SUCCEED COLLUSION DECEPTION GOD 031006 %DIVORCE AUTHORITY PERSONAL EXPERIENCES VICTIMS SIN 031006 %SELF OTHER CONTROL DISHONEST ASSERTIVE COERCIVE IT 031006 %CAPRICIOUS CONTENTIOUS REVERENCE RESPECT HONOR SEX 031006 %TRUST SUPPORT INSENSITIVE DIFFERENCES COMPLEMENT 031006 %TRUTH HONEST OPEN DIALOGUE FRIEND INTIMATE SECURE 031006 Domineering people "succeed" in playing their collusive games of mutual self deception through their divorce of "authority" from the actual experiences of their victims; including themselves as "victims". Domineering people "succeed" by getting their "victims" (including themselves) to accept and honor particular people who are: unpredictable dishonest, assertive, coercive, demanding, arrogant, self-righteous, arbitrary, prejudiced, capricious, contentious AND/OR domineering --- as reliable authorities who merit human: reverence, respect, honor, trust AND/OR support. Domineering people "succeed" by getting their "victims" (including themselves) to be insensitive to the real differences between the following contrasting realities which we encounter in our own lives: 1. Honesty vs Deception/Addiction 2. Accuracy vs Confusion 3. Descriptions vs Prescritions/Proscriptions 4. Authenticity vs Pretentiousness 5. Creativity vs Conformity 6. Humility vs Arrogance 7. Civility vs Self-righteousness 8. Hospitality vs Blind-loyalty 9. Love vs Blind-obedience 10. Hope vs Blind-certainty 11. True-leadership vs Coercive-domination 12. Integrity vs Confusion 13. Security vs Invulnerability 14. Intimacy vs Enslavement 15. Friendship vs Entrapment 16. Interdependence vs Codependence 17. Truth vs Conventionality 18. Rights vs Arbitrary-rites 19. Learning/growth vs Prejudice 20. Loyalty vs Capriciousness 21. Honor vs Stubbornness Victims of domination who cannot tell themselves or each other what differences they themselves see between the above contrasting realities of life --- are not in a position to be true to themselves or to each other. If they cannot be honest with themselves or each other --- they cannot become, or continue to be, well integrated people within well integrated communities. Such victims have few grounds for hope, respect or integrity --- and are willing to sacrifice what few grounds for hope, respect or interity they may have --- in angry/ confused rebellion against whomever they perceive to be responsible for their hopeless conditions. Domineering people "succeed" in playing their collusive games of mutual self deception through their divorce of "authority" from the actual experiences of their victims; including themselves as "victims". Domineering people "succeed" by getting their "victims" (including themselves) to accept particular people who are: unpredictable, dishonest, assertive, coercive, demanding, arrogant, self-righteous, arbitrary, prejudiced, capricious, contentious AND/OR domineering --- as reliable authorities who presumably merit human: reverence, respect, honor, trust AND/OR support. Domineering people "succeed" by getting their "victims" (including themselves) to be insensitive to the tragic differences between the above contrasting realities encountered in our lives, and so become unable to tell the differences to themselves or each other. Because of the perverse "logic" of the process of domination, domineering people cannot help but be the victims of their own "successes" in being domineering. They become trapped in their own collusive games of mutual self deception, addictions, codependencies, and concentrations of the dishonest/domineering Powers That Be in opposition to the best aspects of realities that are pointed to above on the left; in comparison to the worst aspects of the realities that are pointed to on the right. We cannot win a contest over who will be dominant --- without being the loser in the contest to overcome the universally disintegrative effects of all forms of domination. Beware! (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================