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This is Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %DOMINEERING CONCEALMENT ACHILLES HEEL TRUEST LOVER 030616 %CRACK COSMIC EGG HIDE SECRETS FAMILY SECURITY EVIL 030616 %DOUBLE BIND COLLUSIVE GAMES MUTUAL SELF DECEPTIONS 030616 %MOST TRUSTED INTIMATE FRIEND HONORED REVERENCE SIN 030616 %SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS INVITATIONS COURTSHIP LOVERS 030616 %VULNERABLE POINTS MISTAKES ERRORS BLUNDERS FAILURE 030616 Each domineering person is ultimately trying to conceal their own unique most-vulnerable-point; their own Achilles heel. The-trust-lovers are free of the burden of trying to conceal any Achilles heal. Their freedom and security are outside of the realm of the lives of domineering people; i.e., people who continue to try to conceal that they even have an Achilles heel. Much less do domineering people dare to let anybody know the nature of their own Achilles heel. The most-true-lovers know true security within the gracious freedom to be safely vulnerable within intimate relationships --- within sanctuaries where they feel no need to conceal any Achilles heel. In contrast, for domineering people their BEST CONCEALED SECRET MAY BE: 1. Whom they have most fully trusted, honored and/or reverenced. 2. What ideals, values, principles, goals, desires, hopes, dreams, fantasies, aspirations, people, friends and enemies --- have played the most central roles in their lives --- for good or ill. 3. What mistakes, doubts, blunders, temptations, lies, deceptions, pretentions and contentions they have most tenatiously hold onto and kept-hidden-from all people --- including themselves. 4. Where some "evil-enemy" is most likely to find to be the weakest point in their suit of defensive armor --- which hides their own lack of any ultimate: integrity, power, certainty, true-knowledge, endurance or intimacy. 5. What is the crack-in-the-cosmic-egg of their defensive: paradigm, gang, church, state, sexuality, spirituality, profession, doctrines, formalities, habits, rituals, secrete, pretentions, contentions, "intimacies", "significance" and/or "meaning" within Love's relation- ships. 6. The defensive technology which they might be most willing to let go of --- because of how unreliable that defensive technology is in serving their special needs. 7. What true-lover they most admire. 8. What secret they most want to share with some other person. 9. What insights and perspectives they most want to share with others. 10. What realities and experiences have been most awesome, and the occasion of the most meaningful sense of reverence in their lives. So long as domineering people continue to keep their best secrets to themselves --- so long they will continue to undermine diverse forms of personal and communal integrities --- while feeling superior to the poor and vulnerable people whom they fear and harm. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================