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This is Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %CONTENTIOUS TOGETHERNESS DETERMINED INDIVIDUALLY 030514 %INVULNERABLE SECURITY APPROPRIATE WISE RISKS CAUSE 030514 %LOVER GETTING-TO-KNOW-YOU WELL ENOUGH DISCERN FALL 030514 %WHOM WHAT TRUST IDEAS IDEALS VALUE PRINCIPLES GODS 030514 %SETTINGS CIRCUMSTANCES SITUATION DEFENSE MECHANISM 030514 %PRIMARY INTEGRITY SEXUAL KNOWLEDGE GOOD DEVIL SINS 030514 So long as we are contentiously-together in being determined to-be-always-individually-invulnerable --- we cannot recognize true opportunities to take appropriate- risks to advance-the-causes-of-Love. Under contentious-circumstances we cannot easily get- to-know-each-other well-enough TO-DISCERN-RELIABLY: 1. Whom we can (or cannot) trust --- while being wisely-prudent-in-Love. 2. Within which settings and circumstances we can (or cannot) wisely-and-prudently --- let-go-of particular kinds of defense-mechanisms for protecting-primary-forms- of-integrity in Love. 3. What-forms-of-integrity we can (or cannot) wisely and prudently trust-in-Love. 4. What forms of: knowledge, truths and relationships --- are most reliably worthy of: reverence, trust, respect, honor, support and affirmation; and which are not. 5. How, when and where in our lives --- to take prudent-incremental-risks --- which are most likely to advance-the-cause-of-Love --- and how, when and where to graciously-hold-back in-loving-ways --- which will most likely advance-the-cause-of-Love. 6. How, when, and where to share of our-selves, our -insights and our-wealth --- to advance-the-cause-of-Love; and when to wait for a more opportune-occasion for sharing. 7. How, when and where to help build-sanctuary- communities within which to facilitate and promote: reconciliation, openness, honesty and dialogue --- and when to hold-back-and-wait for more opportune-occasions for building-such-santuary-communities. 8. How, when, and where to respond to domineering people --- in ways which will Advance-the-cause-of-Love --- and when to hold-back in ways which will Advance-the- cause-of-Love. 9. How to be wisely and prudently suspicious of our own assumptions, motives, paradigms and friends ---to thereby Advance-the-cause-of-Love. 10. How to AVOID falling into the traps of: self- righteousness, arrogance, pride, pretentiousness and hubris --- thereby advancing-the-cause-of-Love. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================