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This is Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %ENGENDERING EVIL-RELATIONSHIPS INDIVIDUALLY LOVERS+030310 %COLLECTIVELY COMMUNALLY COERCIVELY COVET SECURITY+030310 %INVULNERABILITY SELF OTHERS EXPENSE LESS TAKEN SIN+030310 %GOODNESS MERCY GRACE SHALOM HEALTH HEALING DISEASE+030310 %DOMINATION SYSTEM POWERS THAT BE CONTROL WEALTHY+030310 %RESPECT HONOR CIVILITY REVERENCE TOLERANCE DIFFER 030310 EVIL-RELATIONSHIPS are engendered whenever we do any of the following --- individually, collectively, or in various combinations: Coercively-covet security-through-invulnerability for ourselves --- at the expense of making others become more vulnerable and less secure. Coercively-covet wealth-and-comfort-and-health for- ourselves --- at the expense of depriving others of wealth-comfort-and-health. Coercively-covet our-being-respected-and-honored --- at the expense of others-being-respected-and-honored-as- themselves --- in ways which are different from our own preferred ways. Coercively-covet our being dominant and/or in control --- at the expense of others not being able to be influential in building healthy communities for us all to enjoy together. Coercively-covet health-and-integrity-for-ourselves --- at the expense of others NOT being able to enjoy health-and-integrity as different individuals and communities --- that are complementary to our own selves and communities. Coercively-covet integrated-healthy-relationships for ourselves --- at the expense of other people NOT being able to enjoy well-integrated-healthy-relationships which are open, honest and authentic. Coercively-covet other people's affirmations of our own preferred ways --- at the expense of other different people's preferred ways NOT receiving any affirmations, respect, honor or reverent acceptance-and/or-tolerance. Coercively-covet other people's acceptance of our collusive-games-of-mutual-self-deception; as if they were healthy and/or normal rituals --- at the expense of healthy and/or normal relationships between/among other people who are healthy members of well-integrated-and-honest- sanctuary-communities -- wherein other people's healing, growth and integration are enjoyed as the normal aspects of living together with different people who are routinely accepted-into-dialogue just-as-they-are. Coercively-covet intimacy on-our-own-terms --- at the expense of others whom we use-and-abuse as objects-of-our- coercive-affections --- through our attempts to get intimacy-for-ourselves on-our-terms. It is not enough to be "right" in what we recite, believe and do. To enjoy health-and-integrity within secure-healthy-communities --- we must each one focus upon our own understanding, transcending, and subverting --- our own patterns of: coercively-coveting --- what we cannot get, own or control --- in the absence of our own sharing with others in ways which are civil, gracious, generous, balanced, mutual and truly reverent-in-Love. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================