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This is Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %ACCEPTING INTERNALIZING INTROJECTING ASSUMPTION+021220 %ATTITUDE SECURITY EQUALS INVULNERABILITY HONESTY+021220 %ELIMINATION ABSENCE DEEP FRIENDSHIPS INTIMACY GOD+021220 %AUTHENTICITY LOVE SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS CONTROL SIN+021220 %DEVILS DOMINATION TECHNOCRATS ALONE TASK ORIENTED+021220 %ALIENATE ESTRANGEMENT LONELY DISAPPOINT IGNORANCE 021220 Accepting and internalizing the assumption and attitude that "security comes with the elimination of vulnerability" --- leads naturally to the elimination of: honesty, deep-friendships, intimacy, authenticity, love, and meaningful sexual relationships --- for the fact is that we cannot eliminate vulnerability without eliminating: honesty, deep-friendship, intimacy, authenticity, love and meaningful sexual relationships. People who seek security through the elimination of vulnerability naturally seek to be in control of and/or dominant within all of their personal relationships --- so that they will not be vulnerable to other participants within their relationships. Security is to be achieved through technical means over which they as isolated-ones can alone be-in-control. The task which they must attend to is to plan-fully how to defend-themselves against all-risks and be ever on guard to do whatever must be done to be ok as 1. The natural bitter fruit of the above way of trying to achieve-security is always: alienation, estrangement, loneliness, disappointment, ignorance, bias, prejudice, misunderstanding, meaninglessness, anxiety, fear, defensiveness, and dishonesty. True security involves prudent levels of vulnerability within loving relations of honesty and balanced sharing. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================