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This is http://www.essayz.com/b0212021.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %LOVERS TOLERANCE VIRTUES VICES DOMINEERING HABITS+021202 %DOMINATION SYSTEM SYSTEMIC PROBLEMS DILEMMAS SINS+021202 %THREATS TOLERANCE CREATIVITY HONESTY INCLUSIVENESS+021202 %INITIATIVE AUTHENTICITY BALANCE IMAGINATION GENTLE 021202 Why is it that lovers usually view tolerance as a virtue --- while domineering supporters of "The Domination System" usually view tolerance as a vice? This is part of a pattern as indicated below. Listed are human traits which are viewed as virtues by lovers, but which are regarded as vices/threats by domineering people: TOLERANCE CREATIVITY HONESTY INCLUSIVENESS INITIATIVES AUTHENTICITY BALANCE IMAGINATION GENTLENESS The pattern flows from the great contrasts between the motivations of lovers who seek to promote integration, and "The Domination System" which is committed to being IN-CONTROL. Lovers are committed to facilitating and promoting both personal and communal forms of integrity. Domineering people seek to promote conformity, stability, controls, laws and orders -- which facilitate their being IN-CONTROL. Lovers and domineering people have different attitudes and views of discretion, alternatives, complementary-options, freedoms-to-choose, etc. LOVERS AS PEOPLE ARE sympathetic to permitting people to exercise extensive freedoms in exercising- discretion, selecting-alternatives and considering complementary-options --- within broad guidelines which are clearly not: mandates, prescriptions, proscriptions, demands and/or dichotomous commandments. DOMINEERING PEOPLE are NOT sympathetic to permitting people to exercise extensive freedoms in exercising- discretion, selecting-alternatives and considering complementary-options --- within broad guidelines which are clearly NOT: mandates, prescriptions, proscriptions, demands and/or dichotomous commandments. DOMINEERING PEOPLE are not sympathetic to permissive patterns of behavior --- because permissive patterns of behavior do not provide "hooks" with which to manipulate, dominate and control more vulnerable people. This is not to say that it is simple to discern the differences between the motivations of DOMINEERING PEOPLE and the motivations of true lovers. Sometimes those differences are obscure, because they have been obscured by people who prefer that they not be generally recognized and talked about. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================