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This is Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %LETTING GO DEFENSIVE DOMINATION CONSTRAINTS LAWS+021117 %INVULNERABILITY SECURITY SANCTUARIES INTEGRITIES+021117 %SOLVING SIMULTANEOUS EQUATIONS INTEGRATIONS LOVER1+021117 %CONTROLLERS SYSTEM FACILITATE ENCOURAGE PERSONAL+021117 %COMMUNAL GENEROUS SHARE GIVE GIFTS RELATIONSHIPS+021117 %FRIENDSHIPS COOPERATION HONESTY BALANCE CIVILITY+021117 %SEXUAL INTIMACIES MUTUALITY BALANCE SECRECY FALLEN 021117 True lovers let go of defensive moves and/or attempts to control/dominate --- in the interest of facilitating and encouraging integrations, personal integrities and communal integrities. True lovers are willing to take risks and be generous in working to promote and facilitate integrations, personal integrities and communal integrities. True lovers do not try to steal: intimacies, love, security, friendships, invulnerability or favorable relationships; rather they seek to cooperate with all kinds of people to promote and facilitate: honesty, balance, civility, gentleness, mutuality and integrity --- within intimacies, loving, and growing friendships and mutually favorable/balanced relationships. True lovers do not lift any one commandment, mandate, rule, regulation or law --- to the level of being their ultimate concern or God. True lovers seek with others to cooperate in showing due respect and consideration for a wide range of reasonable constraints upon evil behaviors which promote and/or facilitate: dishonesty, secrecy, coercion, violence, contentiousness, greed, egocentricity, and narcissistic points of view. Evil pertains to relationships of alienation and to whatever behaviors promote and facilitates relationships of alienation. Physicists work to describe/clarify how natural processes progress (develop/evolve) --- by writing down in mathematical equations the laws of conservation of conserved quantities --- equations which describe natural processes which humans cannot change. Then they work SIMULTANEOUSLY with all or the relevant equations which describe the "constraints" which are naturally present in the real processes which they are considering --- to gain insights into what may, or will most likely happen; and so they gain insights into what changes can helpfully be made through human choice and actions --- to facilitate desirable outcomes. It is not enough to be honest for an hour, then kind for an hour, then generous for an hour, etc. It is essential to be honest while being kind while being generous, while being etc. Real virtues are to be honored simultaneously --- even if not demonstrated simultaneously. We cannot truly promote and facilitate both personal and communal integrities --- so long as we chose to honor/demonstrate virtues only when it is convenient and/or advantageous to us to do so in egocentric ways. The latter is simplistic and not worthy of our honor, respect and support. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================