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This is Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %TRAGIC DILEMMA FAITHFUL SUPPORT DOMINATION SYSTEM+021020 %CONFLICTING NEEDS DESIRES IDEALS PRINCIPALS VALUES+021020 %MAINTAIN DISTANCE OBJECTIVITY INTIMACY CONTROLLERS+021020 %IGNORANT MISINFORMED UNINFORMED DROPPING BOMBS GUN+021020 %DECEPTION DISHONESTY PRETENTIOUS SELF RIGHTEOUS 021020 Why do domineering people often specialize in trying to be in "remote control" of things, people and relationships? Why do they maintain "their distance" and avoid getting intimately involved with the people whom they seek to control? "At a distance" they cannot be well informed --- and so remain relatively ignorant of what it is that they are seeking to control. Why remain ignorant? The dilemma which domineering people face is that they are required to use dishonesty as a tool of domination --- in order to be faithful to "The Domination System". Dishonesty is an essential foundation of domination. It is dangerous to become intimately involved with lovers whom one is to attempt to deceive, coerce and/or control through dishonest means. Lovers might see through the deceptions if they are too close for comfort. One must "maintain the distance" in order to be emotionally free to be manipulative, coercive and violent. Dropping bombs on people far below is far safer than is meeting the enemy face to face! You cannot be invulnerable when you are up close and personal. Neither can you be well informed enough to make wise decisions when your are distant and invulnerable. Domineering people are doomed to make tragic mistakes because they are committed to use dishonesty, coercion and violence in order to be faithful to "The Domination System. Domineering people engender evil relationships which undermine mutual understanding, cooperation and conflict- resolution which is mutually advantageous. In truth they cannot truly win! (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================