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This is Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %ROOTS UNHEALTHY HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS VISIONS SINS+020928 %ASSUMPTIONS BELIEFS CONVICTIONS ATTITUDES FEARS+020928 %LANGUAGES UNAWARE UNINFORMED MISINFORMED SHARE+020928 %COOPERATION CONTENTIOUS DISINTEGRATIVE GENTLE GOD+020928 %CONFUSED CERTAINTY HANDICAPPED UNSATISFACTORY EVIL 020928 The roots of both healthy and unhealthy human relationships can be found within the unreconciled: visions, assumptions, beliefs, convictions, attitudes, fears and languages of the people who interact most significantly with each other. So long as we remain unaware of, uninformed, misinformed, and unwilling to share such roots --- we are handicapped in dealing with all that is unsatisfactory in our human inter-relationships. The following texts may suggest and point to some of the diverse roots of our tendencies to be: cooperative, contentious; integrative, disintegrative; healthy, dis-eased; gentle, violent; well, ill; interdependent, pathetic; at-peace, at-war --- with each other: You must conform yourself to cooperate with me/us in fulfilling my/our vision of a wonderful pattern of relationships in which I/we will be the dominant leader/leaders and you will be subservient to me/us. You must lift from me/us the heavy burdens of: responsibility, authority, authenticity, learning, making- decisions, being-held-accountable, understanding, hard- work, etc. --- for I/we are not: good-enough, strong- enough, wise-enough, confident-enough, or properly chosen to carry such burdens. God has called/appointed me/us to be His/Her massager(s) and/or: teacher(s), priest(s), ruler(s), dominator(s), lord(s), king(s)/queen(s) with unlimited powers, knowledge and certainty. All true knowledge, wisdom, authority, commandments and means to salvation are to be found in the sacred ancient scriptures which I/we control and interpret with un-qualified/un-challengeable assurance. Our modern perceptions, experiences, and observations are totally unreliable in comparison to the ancient scriptures which God gave to ancient people and which have been authoritatively interpreted by the succession of God's appointed interpreters of God's words which were given long ago. I/we have the authority to determine and declare who is good and who is evil, and to hand out rewards and punishments. Diseases are punishments ordained by God because people have failed to obey and conform themselves to the requirements of God's laws, prescriptions and proscriptions. Diseases are occasioned by unresolved conflicts between/among the demands, expectations, ideas, ideals, goals, hopes and aspirations of people who do not understand each other at all well --- and fail to truly try to understand and cooperate with each other as well as they might. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================