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This is http://www.essayz.com/b0209131.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %BLAME SHAME GUILT PUNISHMENT UNHEALTHY UNHELPFUL+020913 %DOMINEERING DOMINATION SYSTEM ABUSE SEXUAL DESIRES+020913 %POOR VULNERABLE PEOPLE INJUSTICE POWER CONCENTRATE+020913 %ARTIFICIAL UN-NATURAL LAWS NATURE DESCRIPTIONS GOD+020913 %PRESCRIPTIONS PROSCRIPTIONS DEMANDS COLLUSIONS SIN+020913 %ABSENCE LACK EXCLUSIVITY PARADOX IDOLATRY FALSE ME 020913 Human experiences of blame, shame, guilt and punishment are healthy and helpful only when such experiences lead people to take appropriate steps to mitigate the experiences. When such experiences are "free-floating", disconnected, and do not lead people to take appropriate steps to mitigate the experiences --- the experiences are usually NOT HEALTHY and NOT HELPFUL. Domineering people are NOT HELPFUL when they promote and/or facilitate human experiences of blame, shame, guilt and/or punishment --- which do not lead to people taking appropriate steps to mitigate those experiences. Such promotions and facilitations of human experiences of blame, shame, guilt and/or punishment may be (consciously and/or unconsciously) part of domineering people's ways of trying to be dominant, in-control, superior, in-charge, and faithful to "The Domination System". Such domineering ways are NOT HEALTHY and NOT HELPFUL. For people who are victims of domineering people's efforts to be dominant, in-control, superior, in charge, and faithful to "The Domination System" --- it is an ultimate challenge to discern the dis-eased nature of such efforts, to acknowledge their dis-eased nature, to understand their dis-eased nature, to transcend their dis- eased nature, and to help their community do likewise in gracious, integrative and healing ways. Such healthy and helpful ways are unlikely to entail domination, controls, being-superior, being-in-charge, etc. "Catching" a disease and becoming dis-eased is unlikely to help anybody to acknowledge, understand, transcend, or heal the disease. On the other hand, domineering people are likely to object strenuously (in some hidden ways) to any healthy and helpful ways in which victims of unhealthy blame, shame, guilt and/or punishment search for: healing, reconciliation, conflict-resolution, sanctuaries, honesty and integrity in trying to be themselves, whole and healthy --- in the ways of Love and true/healthy lovers. In the absence of reconciliation, healing, conflict- resolution, sanctuaries, honesty and integrity --- there is no reason to show respect, honor or support for any efforts which engender blame, shame, guilt or punishments; for such efforts under such circumstances are likely to guided by "The Domination System" and its supporters. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================