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This is http://www.essayz.com/b0205182.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %UNILATERALLY SETTING RELATIONSHIP GOALS FAMILY SEX+020518 %SELF OTHER DOUBLE BIND TRAP PRISON APPROACH TRAGIC+020518 %DYSFUNCTIONAL ADDICTIVE CODEPENDENT COLLUSIONS SIN 020518 It is good to have goals and to work to achieve goals. However, we need to be cautious about how we approach goals which have to do with our human relationships. Unilaterally set goals often trap us in dysfunctional relationships with others who have been cast into supporting roles which must be fulfilled for us to reach our own unilaterally set goals. When we have cast ourselves into such dysfunctional relationships by unilaterally setting relationship goals --- we are unlikely to be ready, willing, and able to work cooperatively with those whom we have victimized by unilaterally casting them into supportive roles. We are not likely to learn from our mistake of having behaved unilaterally; and are likely to continue to act unilaterally in our effort to get out of the trap we unilaterally made for ourselves and for others who are victims with us. Sad! So? (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================