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This is Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %DISCOUNT OBJECTIONS STOP ARREST INHIBIT INTIMACY+020513 %EMBARRASS DISCOMFORT FEAR DIVERSE OBJECTION LOVER+020513 %STANDING WITHIN COURT LAW SUIT HARMED THREATEN SIN+020513 %INTEGRATION HEALTH HONESTY BALANCE MUTUALITY HEAL 020513 Upon what healthy ground may/should healthy people discount objections which some people bring --- to try to stop, arrest, inhibit & discount the friendships/intimacies of other people that embarrass/discomfort those people who bring the objections? Might the following be healthy grounds/occasions? 1. When the objectors do not have legitimate "standing"; e.g., they have not truly been harmed or threatened in any significant way due to their geographic/temporal and/or relational "distances" from those about whom they object. 2. When the objectors have not demonstrated any significant dedication to: personal integrity, communal integrity, civility, peacemaking, honesty, balance, mutuality, healing, etc. 3. When the objections are clearly capricious, prejudicial and/or arbitrary. 4. When the objections are not well grounded in previously agreed upon mutual understandings, contracts, promises, covenants, laws, constitutions, etc. 5. When the objectors are recognized by duly certified medical authorities to be suffering from well known diseases which lead them into dysfunctional relationships with other people. 6. When there are demonstrable ulterior motives which are leading the objectors to raise their objections --- without giving due consideration to the integrities of other individuals and communities. 7. When the objectors have demonstrated patterns of intolerance towards healthy diversity --- and of demanding conformity that would reduce diversity and tolerance toward the creating of new --- ideas, images, visions, inventions and relationships --- which include possibilities for new kinds of personal and communal integrations/integrities. 8. When the objectors have demonstrated patterns of preoccupation with issues of control and/or of domination --- which many healthy people do not welcome and are unwilling to graciously tolerate. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================