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This is Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %TRAITOR SECRET FEAR SELF REVELATION EYE CONTACT+020510 %LOVERS DESIRE BALANCED MUTUAL SHARING GIVING GIFT 020510 While participants in collusive games of mutual self deception are preoccupied with how to avoid revealing themselves to others; lovers are preoccupied with finding better ways to reveal themselves to each other; i.e., with how to be together more fully and completely. While colluders are avoiding eye contact, lovers seek endless eye contact. While colluders plot deception strategies, lovers plot self-revelation strategies. While colluders plan avoidance-strategies, lovers plan ways to get together more often in cooperative endeavors. While colluders work to take advantage of conflict and violence; lovers work as peacemakers who seek to mitigate future violent conflicts --- through true conflict-resolution which is beneficial to all participants in the present and in likely future conflicts. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================