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This is http://www.essayz.com/b0205071.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %DISENGAGE EMOTIONALLY PSYCHOLOGICALLY SPIRITUALLY+020507 %DOMINEERING SUPPORTERS SYSTEM APPEARANCE INTEGRITY+020507 %MERIT HONORABLE WORTHY CLEAR CLARIFY PRETENTIOUS+020507 %INTUITIVE COMMUNAL DIALOGUE CLOSE FRIENDS LOVERS+020507 %CODEPENDENCE ADDICTION DRUG SEXUALITY ROMANCE SIN+020507 %HEALTHY INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS BALANCE TOLERANCE 020507 We cannot disengage (emotionally, psychologically, or spiritually) from domineering supporters of "The Domination System" --- so long as they still APPEAR to us to have a form of integrity which is honest, honorable, holistic, and/or worthy of our support. So long as we are not clear about their PRETENTIOUS efforts --- we cannot disengage from them. The essential clarity may come to us intuitively, communally, through honest dialogue with close-friends, and/or through careful intellectual analysis which promotes both personal and communal integrities. An essential aspect of "The Domination System" is to promote and maintain emotional, psychological and/or spiritual dependence on the part of those people who are poor, weak, confused and vulnerable --- so that they can be maintained as dependent/engaged supporters. In "The Domination System" the following are taboo: 1. Liberation 2. Healing 3. Honesty 4. Education 5. Clarification 6. Revelations 7. Holy-Spirit 8. Cooperation 9. Peace-making 10. Conflict-resolution The above are taboo because they will undermine the dependence/engagement of poor, weak, confused and vulnerable people --- in their relationships with the domineering supporters of "The Domination System". Among the realms of great confusion, power, and dependency are the realms of human sexual relationships; for there are obviously great risks entailed in sexual relationships. Domineering people take advantage of ignorance about such risks as means for maintaining control over people who are not clear about how to transcend, understand, and respond prudently/wisely to those unknown risks in informed ways. Domineering people promote sexual ignorance as a means of maintaining the dependence/engagement of many people in their programs of control. The risks can only be managed properly in terms of authoritative statements and/or commands coming down from upstanding domineering supporters of "The Domination System". It is unreasonable to ask that the management procedures make sense in any common sense terms which are understood by the common people. Sexual relationships are too mysterious and dangerous for common people to be able to handle them safely. It is only the high priests who have limited experience with sexual relationships --- who are sufficiently detached from them to know how to handle them prudently and wisely --- in terms of eternal/absolute truths which endure forever within their pure hands. It is only as we learn how to disengage (emotionally, psychologically, spiritually, and intellectually) from domineering supporters of "The Domination System" --- that we can grow into healthy intimate/sexual relationships. Such disengagement is often a major challenge in people's lives. People need secure sanctuaries within which to go through such disengagements. Such secure sanctuaries are found in a wide variety of places, contexts, and circumstances. Such secure sanctuaries are not found in only one special kind of place, context, or circumstance. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================