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This is Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %USE ABUSE FEAR GUILT SHAME BLAME PUNISH REJECT+010301 %CONDEMNATION EXCOMMUNICATION ISOLATION PRISONS+010301 %LETTING GO ABANDONMENT RELAXATION LIBERATION GOD+010301 %SIN DEVIL ALIENATION ESTRANGEMENT RECONCILIATION+010301 %ARROGANCE SELF RIGHTEOUS DOMINATION SYSTEM MEANS 010301 Domineering people are so fully dedicated to the maintenance of the "The Domination System" --- that their acts of "worship" entail the use and abuse of: fear, guilt, shame, blame, punishment, condemnations, rejection, excommunication AND the isolation of "guilty" individuals and "labeled groups" --- regardless of their consequent loss of personal and communal integrities. "The Domination System" is their god. In fear domineering people engage in disintegrative forms of idolatrous worship --- of that which is not worth any honor, respect or support. They project their fears outward --- and try to control all that upon which they have projected their own fears. Domineering people are unable to own their own emotions and so they try to distance themselves from their own emotions ---by projecting their own emotions onto others in an objectification process --- so that they can then try to control others as emotion-laden object -- - in rituals which they hope will purge themselves of their fears. True Love casts out fear in trancendent acts of reconciliation and healing which subvert "The Domination Systems" of domineering people. Domineering people fear any transcendence of their "Domination Systems" --- for to them their "Domination Systems" are their gods upon whom their meaning, significance, and security depend. Their "Domination Systems" demands that they play collusive games of mutual self deception to maintain appearances of being worthy of honor, respect and support. They cannot "with integrity" let go, abandon, or clearly see all the personal and communal disintegrations which their "Domination Systems" lead to. In ignorance and confusion domineering people persist in their idolatrous worship of their "Domination Systems" which systematically engender alienation, estrangement and evil personal relationships. There are at least three "kinds" of domination. 1. Intentional-Offensive Domination 2. Indifferent/Accidental Domination 3. Intentional-Defensive Domination - - - - - - - - - - Healthy-Victims see dominations as disintegrative. Indifferent/Accidental people/victims see a fog. Collusive-Victims see dominations as inevitable. To transcend "The Domination System" we need to learn how to let-go-of, abandon, leave-behind, relinquish and abdicate -- all forms of domination because they are all: disintegrative, collusive, addictive and beneficiaries of codependent supporters who are in a fog. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================