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This is Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %WHY EXCLUSIVE CLUB CHURCH ORGANIZATION FAIL FALL+000721 %RESPECT HONOR SUPPORT CONFLICT DOMINATION SYSTEM+000721 %CRITERIA TECHNOLOGY CONFLICT WAR VIOLENCE DEVILS 000721 To the extent that clubs and churches respect, honor and support exclusive members --- they ultimately fade away or destroy themselves in conflict. Members compete with each other in perfecting CRITERIA for exclusion of imperfect members; and in perfecting MEANS by which to exclude imperfect members. Members leave in disgust; and/or stay to fight over the right to stay. Outsiders see little to attract them into such clubs and churches. Insiders fight over who is best. To the extent that clubs and churches respect, honor and support integrative members --- they grow in integrity as healthy fellowships which are attractive to outsiders and attractive to members who consider leaving. Integrative members focus upon how and why to facilitate and promote both personal and communal integrity. Different members honor and support the complementary ways in which each member can contribute to the health and vitality of the whole. Arrogant and self- righteous members receive little respect, honor or support for their arrogance and self-righteousness. Their conflicts are not popular and so their conflicts ultimately fade away because they are treated as unworthy of respect, honor and support. Integrative members focus upon conflict resolution, reconciliation, and peace-making; rather than upon preparing for battles and additional conflicts. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================