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%THANKFUL CYNIC PERFECTIONIST CRITIC DICHOTOMY FAIL 980706                                                                     
                                                                                                                               
     Some  people are thankful for all that they have  the                                                                    
opportunity to enjoy --- and do enjoy.                                                                                         
                                                                                                                               
     Other  people are critical of all that they have  the                                                               
opportunity  to  enjoy;   believing that  it  should  more             
closely  conform  to  their own conceptions  of  the  ways      
things should  be --- compared to the  imperfections  that                                                                     
they perceive in what is present.   They enjoy very little        
---because they are too  busy being critical. They seek to                          
perfect  everything ---  before they will enjoy  anything.               
They  seek  to  control,  rather than  to  participate  in                           
relationships  which are open,  honest and  responsive  in                                  
reflexive new ways.     
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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