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This is Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %DISINTEGRATIVE GROUNDS OBJECTION EMBARRASS EVIL+961226 %IMMORAL UNETHICAL SINFUL BEHAVIOR LEGALISTIC SIN 961226 People often fail to recognize that some overt or implicit grounds for objecting to "objectionable" behavior are disintegrative grounds. Such disintegrative grounds for objection are often respected in disintegrative ways. We often fail to be well and do well because we fail to recognize disintegrative grounds for objecting to "objectionable" behaviors. Such disintegrative grounds include: 1. The need to conceal participation in collusive games of mutual self deception and to concede the rules of such games. 2. The emotional immaturity of adults who are embarrassed by healthy/integrative behaviors of other adults who are involved in open and honest intimate relationships. 3. Not wanting ignorance, confusion, prejudice, incompetence, mistakes, embarrassment, dishonesty, fears, addictions, idolatry, and disease: to be exposed to public view even though personal and communal integrity are thereby threatened. 4. Arrogant preoccupations with issues of control. Often disintegrative grounds for objecting are masked with disintegrative pretense that they are integrative grounds for objecting on the basis of proper standards of morality, ethics, law, and/or professional organizations. We will not be well or do well if we are indifferent to confusion about what are disintegrative grounds for objecting to integrative behaviors; and what are integrative grounds for objecting to disintegrative behaviors. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================