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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9603202.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %INTEGRATIVE INTIMACY BALANCE POWER DESIRE CONTROL 960320 Intimate personal relationships are unlikely to be integrative unless: 1. There is balance as regards the relative amounts of various kinds of power on the part of all of the participants: physical, economic, political, spiritual, psychological, intellectual, educational, etc. In the absence of balance in regards to power there are significant risks and/or fears in regards to the abuse of power. 2. There is balance as regards to the relative amounts of vulnerability on the part of all of the participants. Vulnerability may pertain to past histories, to present weaknesses, to minority status, to ignorance, to mental capacity, to prejudice, etc. 3. There is mutuality as regards the levels and kinds of intimacy desired by all of the participants. 4. There is a profound level of dedication to act in ways which will demonstrate, invite and encourage openness and honesty on the part of all of the participants. 5. All participants are actively seeking to promote both personal and communal integrity in all that they do. 6. None of participants are preoccupied with being better than others or with issues of control. 7. None of the participants are prone to engage in manipulative, coercive and/or violent behaviors. 8. None of the participants are inclined to efface themselves and play subservient roles all of the time. 9. None of the participants are prone to engage in patterns of thoughts, assumptions, attitudes, feelings and intentions which are characteristic of addicts and their codependent supporters. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================