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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9508151.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %INFLUENCE VERSUS CONTROL THEORY INFORMATION KNOW 950815 We need to be clear about the difference between being influential, and being in control. We may try to be in control, and so be influential in ways which we will later regret---if we are honest about how we have influenced other people. We may try to be in control of certain aspects of other people, and so influence them to be and do in ways contrary to our best interest---because we were: 1. Arrogant, presumptuous, rude, violent, etc. 2. Uninformed, misinformed and/or confused in regards to those whom we sought to control. 3. Operating in terms of a misleading theory of cause and effect, in regards to the processes we were trying to control. 4. Operating in terms of misleading and disintegrative assumptions, perceptions, beliefs, convictions, ideals and values. 5. Unwilling to acknowledge that we were trying to control what we cannot control. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================