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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9505271.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %FORCE MAKE DESIRE CHOOSE VULNERABILITY LOVE SECURE 950527 Vulnerability is dangerous in the absence of true love, but not in the presence of true love. In the presence of true love we may prudently choose to be vulnerable, and we will not choose to force others to be vulnerable. In the presence of true love we are free to enjoy security as the freedom to be safely vulnerable; and we will not seek to achieve security envisioned as invulnerability. People who are forced to be vulnerable in the absence of true love---are likely to be violently defensive in efforts to achieve security envisioned as invulnerability. In the absence of true love we cannot enjoy security envisioned as invulnerability---because the enjoyment of invulnerability is a reflexive reality which we cannot achieve objectively. Achievements are reflexive, not objective. Achievements pertain to our reflexive goals from which we are not detached. What we do in the absence of goals may be objective accidents, but cannot meaningful achievements. Behaviors from which we are detached are not meaningful to us. If we detach ourselves from our behaviors, they are not meaningful to us. Security which we seek to achieve through the objective achievement of invulnerability via manipulations--- cannot be meaningful to us for the above reasons. Thus objective defenses cannot be the means to the enjoyment of security. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================