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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9504281.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %REFLEXIVE JUDGEMENT CONDEMNATION SELF OTHER GOOD+950428 %SELF CONFIDENCE ARROGANCE HUMILITY GENTLENESS+950428 %CONTROL DISCIPLINE RESPONSIBILITY BOUNDARIES LIMIT 950428 There are people who excel in self confidence when it comes to making judgements about self and others. They are not inhibited by any desire to avoid being biased in situations which entail making reflexive judgements. They are often sure that they should be and can be in control---when others who are wiser recognize the impossibility of anybody being in control; and acknowledge the futility of believing that control is possible, desirable, or in keeping with God's Will. Real control (to the extent that it ever exists) has to do with objective manipulation and management of impersonal objects---rather than with reflexive behaviors and relationships. People who attempt to be controllers of reflexive behaviors and relationships---are thus participants in collusive games of mutual self deception and cause much grief and tragic suffering in how they play their futile games. "Controllers" are rarely troubled by: 1. Humility, 2. Desires to transcend reflexive biases, 3. Desires to promote open and honest dialogue, 4. Doubts about their own infallibility, 5. Their own ignorance about other people, 6. The complexity of real human relationships, 7. The consequences of judgmentalism, 8. The consequences of legalism, 9. The consequences of condemnations, or 10. The consequences of excommunications. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================