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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9504091.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %TRAPPED ADDICTIVE COLLUSIVE CODEPENDENT CONTROL+950409 %FEAR CANNOT MANAGE MYSTERIOUS HOLY SPIRIT GOD 950409 If we are trapped in the life style of addictive, collusive and/or codependent living we are likely to be threatened by, fearful of, or terrified by any reality which we encounter which we cannot control---for control is apparently essential to our salvation of our selves. The difficulty of the life style of addictive, collusive and/or codependent people is that there are very few realities which people can control; e.g. the position and orientation of an inanimate object, which object hits which other object, and the destruction of modest sized objects. The really important realities which we encounter are reflexive realities, and we cannot control them; e.g., friends, lovers, family members, relatives, teachers, professors, employers, politicians, religious leaders, spirits, the Holy Spirit, God. Addicts, colluders and codependent servants of them are bound to be terrified by encounters with such uncontrollable reflexive realities; and may deny their reality, ignore them, pretend they do not exist, pretend to be in control---or in some other way engage in dishonest responses to the really important realities of their lives. Such a life style leads to perpetual tragedies, not to salvation. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================