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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9501073.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %SALVATION CONDITIONAL CONTROL DISCIPLINE WORKS+950107 %SEPARATE OBJECTIFY DEPERSONALIZE DICHOTOMIZE+950107 %ALIENATE ESTRANGE REFLEXIVE INTIMACY SEXUAL SIN 950107 If religious salvation is to depend upon and be achieved through conformal control of self and others---it follows logically that religions must find ways to control sexual desires, thoughts, perceptions, experiences, images, dreams, visions, fantasies, and behaviors. Since in reality real control of human sexuality cannot be achieved within the realm of honest integrative ways---it follows logically that religions must find dis- honest dis-integrative ways to appear to have achieved such control. Thus males have made females to appear to be totally dependent upon males, so that females will subjugate themselves to the controlling wills of males; willing to be their play-mates and sexual toys over which the males have total control. Male religious leaders who believe that religious salvation depends upon them achieving conformal control of themselves and others---have thus sought to appear to exercise control over their own and female's sexual desires, thoughts, perceptions, experiences, images, dreams, visions, fantasies, and behaviors. The salvation-through-control-paradigm is tragically and fatally flawed. It demands the sacrifice of personal and communal honesty and integrity. Thus, the salvation- through-control-paradigm is a false idol which is worshipped at the cost of dis-honest personal and communal dis-integration. The salvation-through- control-paradigm does not bear sweat fruits of any kind, much less the salvation which it deceptively promises. The salvation-through-control-paradigm demands that there be dishonesty about sexual aspects of healthy living; by demanding that many sexual desires, thoughts, perceptions, experiences, images, dreams, visions, fantasies, and behaviors NOT BE TALKED ABOUT. SEXUAL SILENCE is required in many circumstances, while it is permitted in other circumstances. The selectivity of the rules regarding SEXUAL SILENCE serves the purpose of maintaining the deceptions of the collusive games of mutual self deception which must be played according to the rules of the salvation-through-control-paradigm. Total silence is not demanded so that the collusive paradigm is not exposed to the light of true love. We will do well to consider the tens of thousands of years of evolution of the various human religions within the light of the above considerations. Such considerations will be quite revealing and disturbing to many religious leaders and addictive controllers. Some suggestions may be found in Bishop John Shelby Spong's book "Living in Sin". (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================