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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9412031.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %HONEST SHARE EXPERIENCE PLEASURE FULFILL DESIRE+941203 %FIND MEANING SATISFACTION INTIMATE RELATION SEX 941203 People who find meaning and satisfaction in intimate and sexual relationships have as their high priorities being true to themselves and each other in the honest sharing of their personal experiences, perceptions and desires. They are not preoccupied with other considerations and fixations---which could lead them to be dishonest about their personal experiences, perceptions and desires. Considerations and fixations which lead people to be dishonest about their personal experiences, perceptions and desires---are disintegrative of personal and communal integrity. Such exclusive considerations and fixations do not merit respect, support or even dishonest toleration which suggests respect or support. Dishonesty about dishonesty leads to the growth of dishonesty, and so to personal and communal disintegration. The honest toleration of creative human differences does not entail dishonesty about dishonesty. Being dishonest about dishonesty does not promote personal or communal integrity. Due to human limits we cannot always tell all truths about all human dishonesty---it is dishonest to pretend that we can. Yet when we are invited to participate in continuing collusive games of mutual self deception---we do not have to become active participants in such games of mutual self deception. We can continue to see the truth clearly ourselves, and decline to show respect for deception and misleading behaviors. Collusive people fear honesty and dare not deal openly and honestly with honest people who clearly perceive the dishonesty of collusive people. Honest people can by their honest behavior invite collusive people to deal openly and honestly with the differences between collusive people and honest people. By their failure to deal openly and honestly with such differences, collusive people acknowledge that their complaints against honest people are without merit, and so their complaints do not merit respect or support. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================