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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9407022.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %SPIRITUAL INSECURITY DOUBT AMBIGUITY PERFECT FAIL+940702 %PRECISE CERTAIN MYSTERY IGNORANCE HOLY SACRED+940702 %ACCURATE 940702 Often we experience insecurity in the presence of: doubts, ambiguities, imperfections, failures, inaccuracies, mysteries, ignorance, the holy and the sacred. It seems natural then, to try to eliminate: doubts, ambiguities, imperfections, failures, inaccuracies, mysteries, ignorance, the holy and the sacred. We seek to be certain, unambiguous, perfect, faultless, accurate, explainers, knowledgeable and objective. When we are lost in the realm of objectivity without personal meaning and satisfaction we may yearn for that which transcends objectivity and entertain the hypotheses that our senses do not sense all of reality. We are prone to believe that there must be a parallel realm of reality which could be sensed with additional senses, much like sight, sound, smell, taste and touch. For lack of imagination we assume that it would be structured much as is our objective reality and would be free of doubts, ambiguities, imperfections, failures, inaccuracies, mysteries, ignorance and reflexive relationships which trouble compulsive objectivists. Insecure people are not inclined to recognize that human meaning and significance pertain to reflexive relationships which are complementary to objective relationships. The realm of human meaning and significance are present with the objective realm in the reflexive aspects of human relationships which are not essentially objective. It is not that a new set of sensory organs are needed to detach the realm where human meaning and significance resides. It is that we need to let go of the filters of compulsive objectivity; and be willing to attend to the presence and nature of reflexive relationships which entail: doubts, ambiguities, imperfections, failures, inaccuracies, mysteries and ignorance. We do not achieve security by the elimination of those realities which we often associate with insecurity. We learn to enjoy security as we learn to offer and accept gifts true security, known as the freedom to be safely vulnerable in intimate relationships where we are true to ourselves and to each other. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================