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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9310102.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %CONFUSE SHAME GUILT DISAPPOINT FRUSTRATE FAIL 931010 Often we are confronted with situations in which people are in need and we cannot meet all of the needs of which we are aware. We may feel inappropriately shameful and guilty in such situations if: 1. We confuse our inadequacy to the situation which exists because of our human limitations---with our failure which are due to carelessness, inattention, selfishness, laziness, etc. 2. We have been lead to make the assumption that our powers and duties to fix situations and people in need are not as limited as they in fact are. 3. We have been conditioned to feel shame and guilt for failures which are failures to achieve unrealistic goals; unrealistic goals which manipulative others have encouraged us to believe we could and should achieve---and then then they have made us feel shame and guilt upon not achieving the unrealistic goals with which they burdened us. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================