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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9308071.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %POSSIBLE LEARN REFLEXIVE EXPERIENCE TABOO TALK SEX+930807 %SILENT QUIET MISTAKE FAIL SHAME GUILT CHILD PARENT 930807 It is difficult and nearly impossible to learn much of value from our reflexive experiences and mistakes so long as: 1. We believe we should not talk to ourselves. 2. We deal with embarrassing issues by keeping silent, not talking with other people about such issues. 3. It is taboo to be open and honest about our reflexive experiences because we should be objective all the time. 4. It is taboo to personally admit to ever having had certain reflexive experiences. 5. It is taboo to ever have certain reflexive experiences, they are mortal sin mistakes. 6. We and others are individually trying to achieve salvation through perfection. 7. We and others are preoccupied with issues of control flowing from outside one person to inside another. 8. Our provincial assumptions, attitudes, feelings and thought patterns are attributed as coming from God. 9. Our own ultimate concerns exclude honest consideration of other concerns of other people. 10. We play collusive games of mutual self deception, addictions and engagements in dishonest attempts at unilateral rescue of dishonest/dysfunctional other people. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================