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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9303302.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %OWN SELF OTHER BEHAVIOR INTEND EXPECT SHOULD DUTY 930330 When conflicts arise it is important to: 1. Acknowledge that the conflicts are reflexive realities, rather than objective realities. 2. Honestly describe and own our own experiences; rather than try to describe what other people intended, did, or experienced. 3. Recognize that without doing the first above, the second is unlikely to occur. 4. Focus upon the qualities of relationships within which we are participants, rather than upon the quality of the participants as separated individuals. 5. Acknowledge that it is the quality of relationships as we experience them which we can describe, not any objective reality of the relationships; and so seek to own and describe our experiences of the relationships, rather than seek to describe and dis-own any objective reality for which others are held primarily responsible, or are blamed for. 6. Acknowledge that we have no way to meaningfully disagree with other people's descriptions of their experiences of conflicts within which we are or are not participants. 7. Note that others can meaningfully disagree with our attempts to describe their intentions, actions, expectations, and relationships. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================