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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9303171.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %TECHNIQUE SACRIFICE SELF KNOW TRUE OTHER CELEBRATE+930317 %NEGATIVE ATTENTION ENCOURAGE FORBID PUNISH EVIL+930317 %PARENT CHILD ADULT DYSFUNCTION ADDICT FAMILY 930317 If parents focus upon what is forbidden to children, give attention to children primarily when children violate prohibitions, and rarely give attention when children have been "good"; the children discover/conclude that to get attention they must violate prohibitions. It is better to get negative attention than to get no attention at all. Parents in dysfunctional families are so distracted by disintegrative consideration of their disintegrative ideals, values and goals; that they have little time or energy for giving positive attention to their children. Faced with limited time and energy and so the choice of giving positive attention or negative attention to their children; they fall into the trap of giving negative attention, and thus encouraging their children to do what is forbidden in order to get any attention. In order to avoid the trap of encouraging negative behavior parents need to deal honestly with the fact that they have limited time, energy and possibilities for giving attention to the multitude of possible foci of attention. Disintegrative ideals, values and goals distract attention away from integrative possibilities and undermine both personal and communal attention in each generation; and the evil relationships which flow from the distractions reverberate unto the seventh generation of descendants. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================