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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9303093.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %REFLEXIVE PERCEPTION OBJECT STATEMENT DISHONEST+930309 %I-TALK YOU-TALK TRANSACTION ANALYSIS CHILD ADULT 930309 Many of our communications originate in our reflexive perceptions, but are expressed in a way which presents our reflexive perceptions with a mask of objectivity. Such presentations are dishonest, and occasion both personal and communal disintegration. We need to openly own our own reflexive perceptions as such through I-talk; avoiding dishonest projections of them upon others and/or upon the universe and God. Too often we use you-talk when I-talk would be more honest. It is not helpful to mask our reflexive perceptions as descriptions of the nature of the universe, the will of God, moral imperatives, or as human legislation. It is helpful to describe our own experiences, perceptions, feelings, desires, fears, hopes and aspirations through I- talk in which we report our own responses to our environment. It is not helpful to blame anyone for our responses; as if anyone could be or should be in control of our reflexive responses. Our responses to people's behaviors are always reflexive responses; because our responses reflect upon us, and upon those to whom we respond. It is dishonest to mask our personal responses to people's behaviors as objective in character, and to ask that our personal responses to other people be regarded as objective in nature. It is dishonest to present our reflexive responses as having been caused in a deterministic way by other people's behaviors. Such presentations dishonestly suggest that other people through their behaviors can control our behavior, and should be held responsible for the behaviors in us which they choose to cause. Such presentations deny the reality that we make choices which are more determinative in how we behave than are any of the choices which other people make. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================