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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9303051.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %HEALTH HUMAN RELATE GRACE REFLEXIVE MUTUAL CONDEMN+930305 %TABOO VULNERABILITY SECURITY HONESTY TRUTH LOVE 930305 For addicts true vulnerability is taboo because truly vulnerable people are more likely to acknowledge dangerous truths than are falsely invulnerable people. Thus truly vulnerable people are likely to violate collusive rules against any honesty which might expose the dishonesty which is essential to the survival of collusions and their addictive/codependent supporters. For addicts manipulative defensive posturing is essential to the avoidance of risks to the collusions, especially risks which are entailed in true vulnerability. Such defensive posturing prevents both true vulnerability and the true security which is often associated with true vulnerability. The defensive posturing does not achieve true security; for that is not the purpose of defensive posturing. The purpose of defensive posturing is the elimination of true security wherein people would feel save to be vulnerable in being honest. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================