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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9301232.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %RULE LEGAL MORAL SEX INTIMACY RISK TRUE TRUST 930123 It is not possible for people who do not know each other, cannot trust each other, and cannot rely on each other---to engage in a truly intimate sexual relationship. True intimacy depends upon true security; and upon the giving and receiving of gifts of true security. In the absence of such exchanges and receptions, there is bound to be the risk of and fear of becoming trapped in a relationship of unbalanced desire, power, concerns and interests. If partners do not have balanced desires, concerns, interests and powers which are well suited to each other; no amount of will-power, effort or control will enable them to achieve fulfillment in a healthy intimate relationship. It is not helpful to try to prevent people from making mistakes of imprudent intimacy through attempts to control them via moral codes, ethical rules, laws, and legalistic injunctions. Such attempts to be in control entail dishonesty about what can be controlled; and so such attempts are doomed to failure. Dishonesty does not make a good foundation for any kind of achievement which is worthy of respect. It is helpful to describe the consequences of imprudent intimacy so that people may learn from such mistakes. It is helpful to know in advance what circumstances have lead people to make mistakes of imprudent intimacy; so that we can take appropriate precautions and work to promote healthy intimacy in balanced personal relationships. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================