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This is Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %DOUBT INSECURE ATTACK TAKE DEFEND FALSE POSITION+921208 %PREDICT GOOD SEX EVIL RELATION VIOLENCE CONFLICT+921208 %BODY SHAPE COSMETIC CLOTHS POSSESSION ATTRACTION 921208 Much attention and money is spent upon superficial predictors of good sex: body shapes, cosmetics, cloths, possessions, hair colors and styles, housing, etc. They can all be manipulated in dishonest ways and so are not reliable predictors of healthy sexual relationships. Children should early in life learn that such superficialities are not reliable predictors of healthy sexual relationships. Such learning would be far more helpful than many bags full of prohibitions, taboos, laws, rules and regulations. Children need to learn early how to recognize the predictors of destructive sexual relationships: Low self esteem, pretentiousness, defensiveness Misleading behavior, dishonesty Secretiveness, evasiveness Unreliability, unfulfilled promises Preoccupation with controls and being in control Preoccupations with perfection and imperfections Preoccupation with fixes, fixing, and technology Inclinations toward manipulations and violence Possessiveness, preoccupations with possessions (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================