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This is Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %PREVENT CHANGE CONTROL RESPOND GROWTH RELATION 910905 When a person responds to a change in her/his environment by trying to take control and prevent change, the response to the external change is an internal change from the patter of behavior which preceded. The response by other persons to the attempt of one person to to take control is a change on their part, which will further change the environment of the person who seeks to take control. It is thus impossible to respond to change in a way which prevents further change. If we seek security in permanence, in the prevention of change, we will fail. If we have been growing up, and then decide to seek security in permanence, inhibiting our process of growing up is a change. If we have been participating in a growing relationship an decide that the relationships have become exactly what we want it to be eternally, inhibiting further growth of the relationship will forever change the relationship in ways beyond our control. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================