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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9102082.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %SEXUALITY CONTROL TECHNIQUE MEANS HONEST RELATION 910208 Some people attempt to use sexuality as a means/tool by which to control other people and/or relationships. They see sexuality as a screw-driver to be used. Other people attempt to control sexuality; and by being in control of sexuality to achieve acceptability, respect, propriety and/or self esteem. They see sexuality as a beast to be caged and tamed. The first kind of people regard sexuality itself as a tool. The second kind of people regard the control of sexuality as a tool. Both kinds of behavior are often technocratic at heart, and so usually miss the mark by failing to be concerned about balance, integrity, honesty, authenticity, mutuality, spontaneity, responsiveness and other marks of balanced healthy human relationships. Technocrats are preoccupied with using tools to be in control of matters of the heart. They cannot understand people who are simply open and honest with each other in relationships which are authentic in heartfelt giving and receiving, and for whom control and technologies are not matters of passionate concern and compulsive preoccupation. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================