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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9011302.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %SAVE RESCUE HELP ADDICT SALVATION HONEST ACHIEVE 901130 It is important to recognize the difference between helping a person to do for themselves what only they can do for themselves, and trying to provide salvation through technical procedures to a person who will not honestly accept the fact that only when they are honest about themselves can they be honestly accepted as they really are. Attempting to provide salvation through dishonest technical procedures is codependence. Attempting to achieve salvation through dishonest technical procedures is addiction. They are not mutually exclusive of each other, and often occur together. When an attempt is made to help another person, there needs to be clarity on the part of both the helper and the helped what the purpose of the attempt is. Is the purpose of the attempt to: 1. Help play a game of mutual self deception? 2. Conceal a truth which neither wants to face? 3. Keep the helped person dependent upon the helper? 4. Do for the helped person what they should do themselves? 5. Achieve for the helped person some form of salvation? 6. Achieve for the helper some form of salvation? 7. Make the helped person become o.k.? 8. Make the helper become o.k.? 9. Celebrate some technology, technique, skill, fix, etc.? 10. Demonstrate superiority on the part of the helper? 11. Demonstrate inferiority on the part of the person helped? (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================