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This is http://www.essayz.com/a9011041.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %BUDGET PLANNED GENEROSITY GIVE CODEPENDENT RESCUE 901104 Generous people who do not budget and plan their giving run the risk of becoming codependent supporters of addicts. This is particularly the case if such people lack healthy self esteem and seek to achieve a heightened level of self esteem through generosity. They are vulnerable to the skillful manipulations of addictive people who seek to be in control of others in their perverted efforts to achieve a heightened level of self esteem. Generous people who fail to take healthy care of themselves become sick people who depend upon others to take care of them. Such generosity does not merit high respect, for people who do not take healthy care of themselves cannot take healthy care of others. Part of taking good care of yourself is wisely and realistically budgeting time, energy, money and resources. Making commitments which cannot be fulfilled is not honest. Making commitments which will depend upon other people in ways to which they have not assented is not honest. Making commitments which will undermine previously made commitments is not honest. Such commitments should not be respected or honored, for they are dishonorable commitments. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================