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This is Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %HELL ACCEPT REJECTED ACHIEVE ADDICT DEPEND HEALTH 891025 Hell is the state of not being accepted, not knowing what healthy acceptance is, and not knowing how to accept healthy acceptance. People who live in hell have not be accepted in a healthy way. They live in homes where people expect you to achieve acceptability, but the way to achieve acceptability is ambiguous. In hell acceptability cannot be controlled because of its ambiguity and because of the confusion which rules in hell. People who live in hell do not know what healthy acceptance is, because they have not experienced it and because of the confusion and ambiguity of hell. They do not know how to recognize healthy acceptance, and in their confusion work for unhealthy acceptance, thinking it is healthy acceptance, and reject healthy acceptance because through confusion they regard healthy acceptance as unacceptable; it is unearned. In hell acceptability is based only upon individual personal achievement, and the ambiguous rules make personal achievement of acceptability impossible, while making acceptance of unconditional personal acceptance taboo. In hell people find it impossible to accept healthy acceptance because such acceptance is taboo; it violates the collusive games of mutual self deception which rule in hell. There are various kinds of acceptance and rejection: There is the personal Acceptance-of-Love which demands no achievement and is unwilling to let acceptance be an achievement. There is the opposite which is personal rejection based upon a failure to achieve personal acceptance based upon personal achievements. There is the kind of personal acceptance which is based upon personal achievement/conformity. There is the opposite which is the detachment from people who refuse to accept the personal Acceptance-of-Love, and who demand to be accepted upon the basis of some achievement or mutually agreed to set of conditions. The people who live in heaven are those who participate in the Acceptance-of-Love which demands no achievement, and are unwilling to let acceptance be an achievement. The people who live in hell are those who do not participate in the Acceptance-of-Love; those who try to achieve acceptability, and those who demand that others conform to expectations to qualify for acceptance. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================