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This is http://www.essayz.com/a8907242.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %MOURN GRIEF HONEST ACKNOWLEDGE BROKEN BONDS MEAN 890724 Mourning and grief are honest acknowledgements of broken bonds of human meaning upon which people have depended for security and significance---because of human limitations by which human significance and security depend upon particular human bonds. Mourning and grief have to do with honesty about human limitations; limitations which mean that significance and security depend in part upon particular bonds. The tearing/passing of particular bonds means hurt. Mourning and grief have to do with being honest about that hurt which is due to human limitations. People who cannot be honest about their limitations are people who cannot honestly mourn or express grief; they play collusive games of mutual self deception about their limitations. They pretend not to hurt. They pretend that they are secure when they are not. They pretend that they have a secure self esteem when they do not. They become defensive and violent in their hurt and insecurity. They become addicts and addicts' supportive codependents who together participate in deadly games of mutual self deception which lead to more broken bonds and the repressed need for mourning; etc.; etc.; etc. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================