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This is http://www.essayz.com/a8702072.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %CONTROL OF OBJECTS VS RELATIONSHIPS 870207 Objects can be controlled because they take no initiatives, but not all desired controls are possible even with objects. One can not control an object to make it have no mass, inertia or weight. Relationships between self and other can not be controlled, because either self or other can not be controlled. Either may take initiatives which are beyond outside control. To control suggests coercive conformation according to some predetermined plan. It is impossible to control relationships between realities which can not be controlled. Personal relationships are satisfying only when they are authentic; except as satisfaction comes from perverse desires and expectations. People who are satisfied by controlling personal relationships have major problems; they do not know what authentic satisfaction is. It is integrative relationships with other people that are truly fulfilling. Fulfillment does not come as the fruits of achieving ownership and/or control of other people or their relationships. Relationships of personal control are not personally fulfilling. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================