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This is http://www.essayz.com/a8611031.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %ANXIETY VS SECURITY 861103 Secure people tend not to live lives of anxiety. Anxious people tend not to enjoy security. Security is often thought of as an objective reality. We usually regard anxiety as an emotional reality. Human behaviors are often chosen to confirm emotional realities. Anxious people through fear choose defensive behaviors which confirm their insecurity by eliciting fearful behavior on the part of others. Victims choose not to take charge of their lives, letting patterns which they could control oppress them to confirm their condition as victim. Helpless people choose to play the role of helpless people to draw helpful behavior from powerful people who stand ready to be charitable, but not empowering. Such emotion confirming choices do not promote personal and communal integrity. It is not helpful to make choices to confirm negative emotional states. Proving yourself to be correct regarding negative emotional states is not integrative behavior. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================